Things of value
What things are required for a pleasant life? Here are my answers.
ā optimum health;
ā as much free time as possible;
ā a few dependable friendships;
ā an appreciation of your existing surroundings (which can be enhanced through the basic study of astronomy, botany, architecture, culture, aesthetics, psychology, etc);
ā sensual pleasure;
ā the confidence to speak your mind;
ā a satisfying creative output, in which you have personal pride;
ā a clean and dignified living space;
ā a modicum of peer recognition;
ā some good habits to be proud of;
ā few dependencies;
ā few secrets.
Not many of these things are commercially available.
This is not an attempt at fabricating a mawkish, real-meaning-of-Christmas-style consolation prize. This is what Iāve found, so far, to be true.
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I couldnāt agree more to all these things.
Point 4 has just reminded me of a blog I wrote for a little while called āFaceless Housing Estate in a Characterless City Diaryā, which aimed to ape the Guardianās Country Diary column but set in an apparently dull and uninspiring urban landscape. It started as a kind of joke but soon had me appreciating my landscape in new ways. I failed to keep up with the blog, (Iāve just had to Google it to find it) but I have continued to appreciate my environment in new ways.
Recently, Iāve taken to photographing the esoteric parts or buildings of my (often thoroughly unloved) home city that hold some special resonance, history or beauty for me. I now send my photos and thoughts off to a friend in China. If one canāt change the local environment, one can always learn to find (often subversive) ways of appreciating it!
Thatās the ticket. What you say about changing the environment versus learning to appreciate it, is exactly the point. The recent āsupermoonā was my inspiration for writing that down. I found it breathtaking and it completely dissolved my natural sneering cynicism. If we know how to recognise a constellation or a particular kind of city brick masonry, or a kind of tree based on its leaf, we donāt need to supplement our surroundings with paid-for tat.
Yes, I think that the process of asking questions and finding out āwhat that tree / building isā can be inspiring. It reminds us to stay alert, keep asking questions, and otherwise be alive. Iām lucky enough that I can walk to work and engage with the real world on the way. If I had to drive to commute, that window of opportunity, that small and temporary āescapeā at least would be lost to me.
Amen, Rob. Love the list. Iād perhaps add the pleasure of knowing that oneās life is in some way improving that of others, and vice-versa. The wonderful web of interdependency and the rich relationships it fosters!
Others? Fuck āem, I say. (Just kidding. I agree absolutely.) I hope allās hunky-dory. x
a great list Robert
Cheers Tony!
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